Y.T. Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 I have been in what I think it my only romantic relationship with Narcotic Thrust. Now don't get me wrong I have had sex before, more than enough to fill my needs. I guess that si the problem, needs and wants. I used to think of sex as just a release. Something I did to get my fix and leave. Yea, you can call me shallow, but i never felt love before, nor have I have interested in my male friends. Narcotic Thrust is the only woman I have had sex with. Not that is not right. We fuck.So here is my problem, of all the women I have known, Narcotic Thrust is the only one I have even been interested in any sexual way. She is also the first person that I wanted to be close to on a emotional and physical level, but I know that on a physical level she has needs that well far out reach my means.Should I try to change her, myself?Should I let her go? Or should I just live with I have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harold 'Mythic' Anderson Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 If she feels the same way then I don't see a problem... I mean, that's sorta the beginning to anything you'd want, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wakinyan Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 Don't try and change her. If you think you have to do so then just walk away. People always say compromise, compromise. How about just finding someone you don't need to compromise with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jager Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 True enough words are rarely spoken, Wakinyan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troy Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 I think we need more information before we can do anything with this. Got any pictures for us to look at? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fracture Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, KILL THEM. If they come back again, run.Just run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wakinyan Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 Wow Fracture you make it sound as if we have dated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fracture Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 Come on, aren't any of you fans of Lenore, the Cute Dead Girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Y.T. Posted September 24, 2005 Author Share Posted September 24, 2005 Well, about the topic i started. She wants more than I am comfortable giving. I feel for the first time in my life that i want a relationship that is more than just sex. She just wants it more than I want. She needs more than I want it. It is the best I have ever had. She doesn't seem to understand this.Fracture, I am not a fan of just about anything. I have interests in many topics most of them would bore you to death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wakinyan Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 Well YT I am not sure what else to tell you. You sound damned if you do, damned if you do not. You ask us for advice but in the end what do you want to do about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Singularity Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 Sex isn't everything, YT. Despite the occasional obsession of others, Regan and I have a relationship that goes a lot deeper than mere physical pleasure and satisfaction. Even after she gained her wings and the instincts that came with them.Admittedly, our mental link provides a certain intimacy that can't be matched. However, the foundation of what we have was laid down before we experienced anything like what's happening to you (though, I must say: I've never been able to say "no" to her ).Urges, desire, and lust are just elements to a complex relationship between two people, the elements amongst countless others. If Narcotic Thrust wants the same thing as you (a relationship) then you might want to relax and not be so worried. This insatiable sex drive might just be something that's apart of who she is, for better or worse, and it's got to be at least a little flattering that she wants you day in and day out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Y.T. Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 If I knew what I would do. I would ask for advice. I just feel like a moth, but I know the fire will burn me. I just want to be close to it. Now I am not saying that she will kill but I am saying that staying with her will most likely hurt.I have known Narcotic Thrust for two years now. She was a dear friend long before I even started to think of her in a sexual way. I know a whole lot about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juri 'Salamander' McClendon Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 So...what exactly is the problem, here? Does one of you want something the other doesn't? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harold 'Mythic' Anderson Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 That's a tough situation, Y.T.... I guess I can't help that much. I mean, I really don't know what I'd do in that situation at all.Maybe love is supposed to hurt, that's what people always say. It's really sad but everyone keeps saying it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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